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If a Man Wants You
By: Salma Rumman

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends.”
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.
All men are not dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships…There is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to complete you. A relationship consists of two whole individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
Dating is fun; even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him—he takes it for granted.
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, and an entire lifetime to forget them.

1. Love does not hurt. Physical and/or emotional abuse are not a part of love.
2. Love is not manipulative, it should not be used to get others to do what you want. You should never give in to demands based on the, “You would do it if you loved me!” tactic.
3. Love is an intense feeling of caring for another person. It can take many different forms (romantic, friendly, familial) but it is always about caring.
4. Although it is true that a big part of love is putting another person’s happiness ahead of your own this never includes compromising your values or being untrue to yourself.
5. If somebody asks you to do something that you don’t want to do in order to “prove” your love they do not love you the way you might think they do. When you love another person you don’t ask them to sacrifice a part of themselves in the name of that love.
6. It is very easy to confuse lust for love. The true measure of romantic love is commitment and trust not physical attraction.
7. It is possible to feel romantic love for more than one person at a given time. Just think, if it is possible for you to love both of your parents at the same time why would it be impossible to feel romantic love for two people at once? Don’t beat yourself up emotionally if you find yourself in this unhappy situation. But be sure to remain single and be open and honest with all parties about your feelings and confusion.
8. Sex is NOT love. Love is NOT sex. Sex can be a part of romantic love but it is never mandatory.
9. Romantic love can (and often does) fade. When it goes there is not always a reason. When somebody falls out of love with you it does not reflect upon your value as a person or your desirability.
10. Love should make you feel happy, secure and appreciated.

i regularly check my horoscope in Friendster.. and most of the time.. it’s right.. c:

August 15, 2008

OCTOBER = PERFECT
Trustworthy
and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to
have fun. Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towards your inner and
outer beauty and independent personality. Playful, but secretive. Very
emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very
social in a group. Fearless and independent. Can hold their own. Stands
out in a crowd. Essentially very smart. If you ever begin a
relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because
their one of a kind.

nyahaha.. c:

**sabi nila… pag daw may nightmare ka.. ikwento mo sa iba.. para hindi mangyari… which is why i created this post.. ~_~**

i’ve heard about of waking up with tears in your eyes, and i’ve actually experienced it… but i never thought that i would wake up with so much tears, lack of breathe woke me up! whew! what a nightmare..

it went like this: as usual, the gang, COF, are really noisy during class.. while that class was going on.. (can you believe it.. we have so much guts?!?!) nweiz.. the prof knew me well, so he called me.. guess what he did…………………………………………………………………….. he humiliated me in front of the entire class! oh my!!! i didn’t say aything back to him, cause i didn’t want any more trouble. i stayed silent. trying to stop my tears from falling. it hurts. especially if he stabbed my pride. tsk tsk tsk. the bell rang, and the class ended. then, the tears started to flow… karen, one of my close peeps, approached me. i thought she was gonna give me some words of encouragement… i was wrong. she came up to me and said ‘talaga bang nagtatampo ka?’ when i heard those words, i couldn’t help myself. i didn’t answer back! (whoah?!? this aint like me..) all i could say to myself was "what the f*ck?!? why the hell would i have negative feelings toward the gang?!? the gang didn’t do anything to me………………………………" maybe that was what she meant. the gang didn’t do anything to comfort me. they just sat there…. not to mention, kept on teasing me to thomas! another factor that triggered my ‘emo-ness’ :)) i can’t understand why that issue wont stop! damnit!

they hurt my pride. they hurt my feelings. they didn’t do anything. what a nightmare….. for someone like me who’s soooooo attached with her friends, and to her past(crush)…

after this… i started to believe what they always say… "nakakabangungot ang pagtulog ng busog!!!!!!" ahahahaa.. i was so eager to eat fast (and plenty!) cause it was striking 6′o’clock PM already… [i practice after-6-diet... that's why] i therefore conclude that ‘what they say is true ~_~’

Yea Yeah
Yea Yeaaah
Yo ‘SoundZ’ I Hear You Man
Usheerrrr
Yea Thats It Right Here
Queen B Yeaaaah
I’m the king, y’all know that (Usher Baby!!)
She the queen, came right back (Listen To It!!)
Yeaaahhh… Yeaaahhh

(OH!! REEEMIIIIX!!!)

(Usher)
now baby girl there ain’t nothing more i can say
you know by now i wanted more than anything
if i walk away and just let you leave
you’ll be stuck in my head like a melody

(Beyonce)
I know you want it (but) [yeaah]
im hesitating (huh) [why!?]
you must be crazy
i got a man, you got a lady

(Usher)
iiii know we’re here together
so this must be something special (cuz)
You could be anywhere you want
but you decided to be here with me
no coincidence it was meant to be
dont be shy go and let your boy get in
so you can tell all your friends
you was on tha remix liiiiiike…

(chorus)
In this club, In this club
Ladies, can i put this love up on you one time if you ain’t scared say wassuuuup…
In this club, In this club
They can keep watchin, I aint stoppin, baby i don’t give aaaa…
In this club, In this club
Ladies, can i put this love up on you one time if you ain’t scared say wassuuuup…
In this club, In this club
They can keep watchin’
Baby i don’t give aaaa…. in this club….

(Beyonce)
Baby, you know I’d be down
But we can’t have all these people staring, standing around
This right here is only for your eyes to see
But you getting carried away, saying "we can do it wherever"
The way you’re touching me like no other
(Imma make you feel insane…)
You’re trying your hardest to make me give in
But i’ma be down to give you what you want, and if you keep it uuuuuup
I strongly doubt this velvet rope would hold me up
And I don’t want security rollin’ up on us (I got you…)
I’m not hesitating, I just don’t wanna rush
Cause you could be anywhere you wanted
but you decided to be here with me
no coincidence it was meant to be
dont be shy go and let your boy get in
so you can tell all your friends
you was on this remix liiiiiike…
[ Love In This Club Part 2 Lyrics on http://www.elyricsworld.com ]
(chorus)
In this club, In this club
Ladies, can i put this love up on you one time if you ain’t scared say wassuuuup…
In this club, In this club
They can keep watchin, I aint stoppin, baby i don’t give aaaa…
In this club, In this club
Ladies, can i put this love up on you one time if you ain’t scared say wassuuuup…
In this club, In this club
They can keep watchin’
Baby i don’t give aaaa…. in this club….

(Lil Wayne)
Uh-Umm….
Shawty want a thug
It started with a hug
And the rest went like this
I gave her neck a kissy-kiss
She gave my neck a kiss back
I said we could do it like a stack,
I mean, we could do it like a G
On the couch in VIP
Shawty, we could get it on
I’m like "shout out to the DJ for playing this sooong"
Girl, we could act like two damn fools
Have everybody think we doin erthing smooth
Call meee, so i can make it juicy for ya
Meet me in the bathroom and you could be my secret lover (girl..) [*WEEZY LAUGH*]
And it started with a hug and now we making love in this club
And we not gonna stop just because
The people in the crowd are watching us
Cause we dont give a damn what they say
Thiiis iiiis…
D-DA REEEEMIIIXXX BAAABAAAY!!!

(Usher)
Come a little closa
Let daddy put it on ya
Need ya to know
What happens here stays here

(Beyonce)
Well Im, Ready and willing
Mamas got to glow
Gotchu standing at attention
happy to go low

(Usher)
aint nobody watchin
dont worry they cant see us
i know i got you HOT
now let me iiiin

(Beyonce)
you in the club or the car
whereva you are
run and tell da dj
run it back on replay

(chorus)
In this club, In this club
Ladies, can i put this love up on you one time if you ain’t scared say wassuuuup…
In this club, In this club
They can keep watchin
Baby i don’t give a…. in this club….

Now run and tell all of ya friends they gotta here this remix liiiiiike…

(usher)
king and queen.. yall know
yeah man
(lil wayne) [while beyonce sings]
what would music be without ‘SoundZ’
(beyonce)
if we make love in this club, in this club, in this club
(usher)
nobody will knoooow, baby…….

Weak

I have been crying and crying for weeks

How’d i survive when i can barely speak

Barely eat, On my knees

But thats the moment u came to me

I don’t know what your love has done to me

Think i’m invisable

I see though the me i used to be

You changed my whole life

Don’t know what your doing to me with your love

I’m feeling all super human, you did that to me

Super human, heart beating me

Now the thing has got me here with you

Super human

Strong

Since i’ve been flying and righting the wrongs

Feels almost like i’ve had it all along

And i can see tomorrow

Where is problem is gone because

I flew everywhere but love inside of me

Its unbelievable to see how love can set me free

You changed my whole life

Don’t know what your doing to me with your love

I’m feeling all super human, you did that to me

Super human, heart beating me

Now the thing has got me here with you

Super human

Its not a bird, not a plane

Its my heart and its going, gone away

My only weakness is you

Only reason is you

Every minute with you

I can feel like i can do anything

Going going, i’m gone away in love

You changed my whole life

Don’t know what your doing to me with your love

I’m feeling all super human, you did that to me

Super human, heart beating me

Now the thing has got me here with you

Super human

Super human

haaay.. enrollment day.. wat a horrific day!!! haha.. super bummer ang enrolment process sa uste.. as in.. waaa! hehehe.. nweiz.. dahil sa araw na toh.. i therefore conclude that… jealousy is not something to be nurtured! at pinairal ko nanaman ang principle na "kung wala kang sasabihing maganda, eh wag ka na magsalita!" hahaha.. oh db.. ^_^

aun lng..
.post ng baboy.

hehehe.. yan ang aking section ngaung sophomore year sa uste.. ^_^
hehe.. antagal ko na ring hindi nakapag-post dito! la lng.. ^_^

nakakalungkot lang kasi hindi ko na xa klasmate.. aawww.. hehe.. iba kc cors eh! tsk tsk tsk.. hehe.. un lng.. hehe… vavoosh!